We all want love, and we all want to make a great living. You CAN have both when you focus on what a truly great living really is. What does living greatly mean to you?
How would you know you were living greatly? How would you know you were feeling LOVE? What would experiencing those things make you FEEL? At the end of the day, everything we want has; at the base of it, something to do with how it would make us FEEL.
So how DO you want to feel? Close your eyes right now and breathe deeply. Think about that feeling. When did you experience it before? You HAD to have experienced it at some time in order to know you want it now.
Since then, you have convinced yourself that you have to be doing or experiencing something to cause you to feel it. But if you have been focusing on it while doing this exercise, then you are feeling it right NOW!
Notice that you can evoke that feeling in yourself whenever you choose to actually focus on it. It does take a moment of intention so notice what you are committed to...
Now notice that you COULD CHOOSE to feel this feeling of living well and loving at any time you chose to really focus on it. But alas, we often choose to feel something else. Perhaps something like being a victim, or having a lack, or worse; a feeling of entitlement. (That is something we will look at more in a future post).
So the good news is we can have this when we really want it and commit to it and we can't when we are committed to something other than it. Why would that be good news too? Because when we feel anything OTHER than what we want, it is letting us know! We are getting feedback from our higher self that we are not in alignment with what it is we really WANT to be feeling.
When you are driving, you don't get upset as you correct your course ever so slightly as you attempt to drive straight or around a curve. You just adjust. What if you looked at all the experiences you don't want as indications that you need to make an adjustment in your thinking or actions?
Rather than being unhappy or railing against the feedback you are getting from life, what would it feel like to experience it as just a signpost that requires an adjustment be made?
We CAN live our lives in an extraordinary way that is both a great living and a great loving. It is all up to us and the attitude we choose to live by. As Dr. Joe Dispenza would say, we need to “break the habit of being ourselves”.
Just start choosing new thoughts whenever you have the chance or the awareness to do so. It will take time, patience and perseverance but what better outcome can we strive for than our own great living and loving?
Be Well and Create a Loving Thought,
P.S. If you are ready to take your life (and your love) to a new dimension, give me a call to explore what is possible. You can schedule a complimentary 25 min. "Make My Living Great" coaching session at http://meetme.so/ninapotter or call me at
+1-651-214-6803 or email to nina(at)ninapottercoach.com. Let's take it to a whole new level!