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Be Happy IN Your Situation but Not WITH It

10/3/2017

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Dear One,

I feel your pain when a situation is not what you 
imagined for your life or the life of another.  

That could be your marriage or career, your spouse, 
your child, parent, neighbor, or someone you don't 
even know who lives far away and is hungry or in a
war zone or reeling from a mass shooting.


When we feel strong feelings about something, whether that be sadness, anger, or despair, it is a signal 
that we are experiencing something we are not aligned with.  

It is an opportunity to be aware of what we want INSTEAD!  

These early warning signs can be useful to help us 
identify what we want to move toward.  When we can
accept that what IS is what we have to move from or 
away from, we can still find contentment IN our 
situation as a “Growth Edge” for our personal 
development and evolution. 

That does not mean we have to settle for any kind of
contentment WITH it.  

We want to have the drive and motivation (or Better 
Yet, INSPIRATION) to make changes in our (or the 
world's) situation but not at the Expense of our
Well Being, which is all about being content with 
what IS.  

When we strive to find solutions to issues we are 
not content WITH from a place of Well Being (or 
contentment IN), we have better outcomes.  

We are able to work better with those we are in 
conflict with, resulting in more of what we want. 

We access higher intuition and creativity and are
able to make better choices and decisions.

If you are trying to make changes in your life or 
the life of others, stop for a moment and notice
if you are trading your inner Well Being for nothing 
and thus hindering your success.   

There will be less friction and resistance to your 
efforts when you approach this situation from
your contentment in your growth and learning while 
you do the work of changing that which is 
displeasing you.

In Love and Awe for YOU in your efforts,
Nina

P.S. If you yearn for both more contentment in your life
AND for changes in what you are experiencing, contact
me for a complimentary Loving My Life Now coaching
session to see what can be possible for you!
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Call me at 651-214-6803 or email to 
nina(at)ninapottercoach.com or schedule your 30
minute consultation at http://meetme.so/ninapotter
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1 Comment
Susan Nordvall
10/10/2017 07:37:45 pm

In my saved posts. Relevant now since I have moved on and am staying with a friend. Didn’t realize you write this until the end. Well done!! Planning my future in changes and stages. < 3

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    I AM Nina Potter, Marriage Crisis Coach,  Three C's TM Marriage Coach and lifelong learner of everything about Mind, Heart, Spirit, and our Relationship with Self and Other as ONE.

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