So your spouse has or is threatening
to leave?
Ouch!
The Holidays are here, and you're in the
middle of a pandemic and life is uncertain
already without this marriage crisis?
Triple Ouch!
There IS hope for your broken heart and
there IS a way back to love... even if your
spouse doesn't want to participate.
Here is the first of 5 gifts to get you started
on your way back to creating a BETTER marriage
than you've ever had prompted by the Holidays.
Let's start with some good news...
LOVE comes from WITHIN you, not from out
there, including from that person you married
but may no longer recognize.
You, My Dear One, are capable of experiencing
all of the love you need if you simply stop pinching
off the flow within you. (One of the reasons they
may be turning away from your marriage).
What do I mean? Think of when children are
playing at something they love doing. Something
they feel they are capable of...
They Overflow LOVE!
They aren't selfish or bullying or acting out, they
are LOVING and they are IRRESISTIBLE!
to leave?
Ouch!
The Holidays are here, and you're in the
middle of a pandemic and life is uncertain
already without this marriage crisis?
Triple Ouch!
There IS hope for your broken heart and
there IS a way back to love... even if your
spouse doesn't want to participate.
Here is the first of 5 gifts to get you started
on your way back to creating a BETTER marriage
than you've ever had prompted by the Holidays.
Let's start with some good news...
LOVE comes from WITHIN you, not from out
there, including from that person you married
but may no longer recognize.
You, My Dear One, are capable of experiencing
all of the love you need if you simply stop pinching
off the flow within you. (One of the reasons they
may be turning away from your marriage).
What do I mean? Think of when children are
playing at something they love doing. Something
they feel they are capable of...
They Overflow LOVE!
They aren't selfish or bullying or acting out, they
are LOVING and they are IRRESISTIBLE!
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Now contrast that with when they are needy:
Mooooom! Daaaaad! Their love is pinched off
and as much as you love them, wouldn't you
really rather they go find something to do in
their room? (If you don't have kids of your own,
you have witnessed a kid pulling on the leg of
their obviously annoyed parent).
The Irresistible version is the one YOU need to
be during this time of stress and heartbreak.
Mooooom! Daaaaad! Their love is pinched off
and as much as you love them, wouldn't you
really rather they go find something to do in
their room? (If you don't have kids of your own,
you have witnessed a kid pulling on the leg of
their obviously annoyed parent).
The Irresistible version is the one YOU need to
be during this time of stress and heartbreak.
Holiday Gift 1:
Acknowledge & Accept this holiday
season is just going to be different. When
you resist and rail against what is, it tends to
grow stronger. When you say YES...AND...
You can decide to make it new and available
for discovery!
This is how Improv Theater works. The Actors
never know what their scene partners are
going to give them so the rule is to
Yes!... And...
then add the next line. Incredible things unfold
and are discovered with this attitude.
Acknowledge & Accept this holiday
season is just going to be different. When
you resist and rail against what is, it tends to
grow stronger. When you say YES...AND...
You can decide to make it new and available
for discovery!
This is how Improv Theater works. The Actors
never know what their scene partners are
going to give them so the rule is to
Yes!... And...
then add the next line. Incredible things unfold
and are discovered with this attitude.
It's human nature to not want change. So
look at it as Growth or better yet, Adventure!
Since the ONLY thing that doesn't change is
the fact that everything changes (and resistance
is futile), you are better off flowing with what is
and then take the action that will make the very
best of it.
look at it as Growth or better yet, Adventure!
Since the ONLY thing that doesn't change is
the fact that everything changes (and resistance
is futile), you are better off flowing with what is
and then take the action that will make the very
best of it.
Come back tomorrow for Holiday Gift #2
to Win Back Love!
If you want more help right away, check out
the resources page or schedule a 25 min.
complimentary Marriage Rescue Consultation
at https://meetme.so/ninapotter
to Win Back Love!
If you want more help right away, check out
the resources page or schedule a 25 min.
complimentary Marriage Rescue Consultation
at https://meetme.so/ninapotter
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